... just a thought ....

I was on my way home from my usual friday gimmick when i heard the topic being discussed on the radio. The lady dj mentioned that this was based on the controversial PPB (Pinoy Big Brother) episode. The "hot and sizzling" (as described) kisses, exchanged between couples. Many people did have negative reactions on this, which of course led to the censorship of the said show. But if you think about it, it's just normal for such thing to happen but then, i forgot.. yeah right it's not a good image for a reserved society. Who said so anyway... ????? Going back, well the famous question posted was, is it ok for a girl to make the first move? And i do agree with her. The dj i mean... same outlook... I can't see anything wrong with that. Expressing yourself, your emotions toward a guy. But of course many people do think that women doing such actions are cheap, flirt, super "pakawala" and with no sense of proper upbringing. But how do you define proper? Isn't it based on our own views, beliefs and i think to vague to define. Well, we were raised in a double standard, conservative society as believed. They said so. But for me you just can't judge a person by being forward or taking such action. There's more to it than that.
Anyway, there's nothing wrong with girls making the first move.. on being upfront.. making their point and letting guys know what they really feel... As long as of course you do it in a dignified way without embarrassing yourself... with poise and in a direct manner. Just say it and let it be known. It's natural for you to like a guy... be mature enough to handle such situations.. speak up your mind.. your heart.. You'll never know...